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Prenups Aren't Just For Jessica Simpson

Celebrities are not the only people asking for prenuptial agreements. In Michigan, prenups are becoming more common with couples who are marrying later in life, or who are marrying for the second or third time.

 

Will Jessica Simpson insist on a prenuptial agreement as she plans on marrying Eric Johnson?  That seems to be the hot topic surrounding her life these days.  Eva Longoria and Tony Parker had a prenup.  George and Ann Lopez did not.  Frank McCourt and his wife Jamie, owners of the Dodgers, apparently had two prenups and they each said different things. 

Why all the fuss about prenuptial agreements?  What are they and why would we even consider one unless we were a celebrity?

Prenuptial agreements are honored in Michigan, and are made between couples who are planning on getting married.  Those agreements will state what happens with their money and property if they ever divorce or die.  It can dictate how they will purchase things and how they will share debt.  It can also indicate whether or not spousal support or alimony will be awarded if they divorce.

I have found as a Northville-based family law attorney, that prenuptial agreements are very common when two people are bringing significant assets of their own into the marriage, or even significant debt. They are also common when people are marrying later in life and they have grown children they want to provide for if they were to pass away.  They are common with people who are marrying for the second or third time, or for people who have businesses that they have started or have inherited through the family. 

And they are far more common than they used to be, even in Michigan.

For couples that are anticipating marriage, it's very important to at least consider whether or not to have a prenuptial agreement in place prior to marriage.  This is particularly important if each person has their own property, investments, retirement and savings. 

If a couple decides on a prenuptial agreement, they must fully disclose to each other all of their property and debt and the value of each, and must agree to consult with an attorney prior to signing it.  If these requirements are met, the prenuptial agreement is upheld in the future.  If one person does not fully disclose all of their assets or debts and this is discovered during a divorce, the potential penalty imposed by the court is setting aside the prenuptial agreement completely and proceeding as if it never even existed. 

Prenuptial agreements are usually signed prior to the wedding.   They are treated like a contract, and are reviewed by the court if the couple ever files for divorce.  Unless something unusual is discovered during the course of divorce about the prenup, like fraud or a significant misktake, the court is bound by the agreement of the couple.  This means that the normal equal sharing of marital property is set aside, and the prenup governs how property and debt is distributed – and even determines if a person receives spousal support, or alimony.

And yes, despite what you may believe, in Michigan, prenups are drafted for people just like you and me, even if we aren't as newsworthy as Jessica Simpson.

 

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About this column: Each week Attorney Wendy Alton will answer your questions about family law. You can check out her blog at www.altonlaw.blogspot.com and her law firm's page at www.fb-firm.com.
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Dell Deaton, divorcepastor.com

9:47 am on Sunday, January 9, 2011

Thank you for shining light on this very important topic.

It's always struck me as ironic that otherwise intelligent and otherwise responsible folks will view prenuptial agreements as pejoratives. The argument that they undermine romance is specious; retorts of 'What? Don't you trust me?' outright reckless.

One of the things I suggest to couples who're looking for advice on getting off to a better start in their next relationships after divorce is to think beyond assets. Thus, crafting a prenuptial agreement encourages discussion of various expectations, needs, tasks, and, yes, even baggage - at a time when individuals are most predisposed to negotiate in good faith.

Years ago, I recall reading about supposed terms of an anticipated prenuptial agreement between Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck that discussed issues of romance. Something similar appears to have found its way into a gag setup in the more recent movie, 'Made of Honor." But there's nothing silly at all about discussing ahead of time the who and when of driveway snow removal outside of marital homes here in Michigan.

Such things, I think, would serve to ensure things stay warm inside.

So, yeah: Let's give some serious thought to advocating prenuptial agreements. And let's make sure the counselors who advise us on their construction are encouraged to bring up anything and everything they think we should be considering for the content thereof.

Dell Deaton
divorcepastor.com
Belleville, MI

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