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Northville Schools Superintendent Speaks Out About Newtown Elementary Shooting

Mary Kay Gallagher offers advice on how to talk to children about the news of the tragedy.

On Friday morning, a .

In response, Northville Public Schools Superintendent Mary Kay Gallagher wrote a letter to the school district. In the letter, Gallagher says the district is grieving with the Newtown families and staff.

She also addressed how to talk to your children about the tragedy and safety at Northville schools.

A portion of Gallager's letter reads as follows:

"Parents often ask how they can best support their children and young adults as they too grapple with news of incomprehensible tragedy. The attached document from the National Association of School Psychologists provides some helpful information about talking with children about violence."

"There are several key messages, reinforced in the attached document, that are important to keep in mind:

  • Limit exposure to the media – radio, television, online.  Developmentally inappropriate information can cause anxiety or confusion, particularly in young children. Adults also need to be mindful of the conversations that they have with each other in front of children, even teenagers, and limit their exposure to vengeful, hateful, and angry comments that may be misunderstood. 
  • Reassure children of their safety in our schools.  Our school staff works with students, parents, our local police and fire departments, and community leaders to keep our schools safe as possible.  
  • Our schools have a daily security plan in place, we limit access to our schools by locking our doors and monitoring who comes in and out, we practice drills to keep everyone safe, and we ask everyone to be watchful and to report anything that seems out of the ordinary.  We have supervision in our hallways and on our playgrounds, and we have police liaison officers from Northville Township Police Department who work directly with our schools, students and families.  
  • Everybody plays a role in keeping our school safe.  Be observant and let an adult know if you see or hear something that makes you feel uncomfortable, nervous or frightened.  There is a difference between reporting and tattling or gossiping.  
  • Senseless violence is hard for everyone to understand.  Doing things you enjoy, sticking to a normal routine, being with friends and family help make us feel better and keep us from worrying about the event. 
  • Violence is never a solution to personal problems.  Students can be a part of the positive solution by participating in anti-violence programs at school, learning conflict resolution skills, and seeking help from an adult if they or a peer are struggling with anger, depression or other emotions they cannot control.  Programs like positive behavior support, peer mediators, Leader in Me, and playground conflict managers are ways that we work on these skills at school."

"Please know that our teachers and school staff will reinforce these same messages (including those referenced in the attached document) at school as appropriate. As always, our school principals and social workers are available should you have questions, or would like help in addressing concerns your child may express. Thank you, as always, for partnering with Northville Public Schools to work together to keep our children safe, and able to focus on learning in a caring and supportive school environment."

CG December 17, 2012 at 02:53 AM
I couldn't disagree more about the security at Thornton Creek at least. Something needs to be done!!!!! Several issues! I have emailed the principal about a concern that I had at the beginning of November, and never heard back from her.
elayne evans December 17, 2012 at 04:00 AM
Our neighboring school districts are taking serious precautions as a result of the tragic lessons learned from the elementary shooting. In Rochester, they've locked all but one door for entry/exit and one police officer has been posted at each school. Nortrhville has a similar safety system/protocol as Newton. What actions are we taking? We need to hold a public meeting to discuss,(re) consider and review our safety plans...IMEDIATELY.

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